I wrote this essay a while ago and it found the perfect home at AARP's The Girlfriend. They changed the title from my submission (which was "I'm Interested"). Pubs do that pretty regularly for Search Engine Optimization. But I liked my original title, so I figured I'd include it here.
Here's the link, if you care to read:
https://tinyurl.com/s3z53sy
I hope that works!
xo
Jes
